Relationships can be complicated, especially when trying to decipher what the other person is thinking. That’s why tarot cards can provide valuable insight when there are mixed signals or uncertainty. In this post, we’ll analyze a common relationship scenario posed by a female reader: “What is he thinking about me?” To uncover the answer, we performed a simple 3-card tarot reading focused on her romantic interest.
The Cards: Passion, Doubt and Romance
The first card drawn was the Knight of Wands. This card often represents strong passion, sexual attraction, and self-confidence. However, as a knight, it can also indicate impulsiveness and non-committal behavior.
The middle card drawn was the Star reversed. When upright, the Star represents hope, faith and inspiration. But reversed, it points to self-doubt, lack of clarity and losing one’s way.
The final card was the Knight of Cups. This knight epitomizes romantic charm, imagination and following one’s heart. Still, as a knight, long-term dedication may be lacking.
Interpreting the Reading: His Perspective
Taken together, the predominant message across all sample readings is that while he feels strong passion and romantic attraction towards the female reader, he harbors significant self-doubt that is making him question or hold back from seriously pursuing a relationship. The Knight of Wands shows he is sexually interested and finds her spirited personality alluring. However, the reversed Star suggests he lacks confidence in himself or the potential viability of a real relationship. The Knight of Cups reveals an attraction on an emotional/romantic level as well, but his doubt creates inner conflict about whether to take action.
Additional insights tied to this interpretation include:
– He worries he may hurt/disappoint her due to his own issues
– Fear of rejection makes him reluctant to open up
– Immaturity and unwillingness to commit are blocking deeper connection
– External circumstances might prevent them from being together
In summary, most readers sensed his attraction coupled with uncertainty, inner turmoil and hesitation to move forward.
Key Takeaways: Navigating Ambiguity
When faced with complex relationship dynamics and ambiguous signals, consider the following advice:
- Look inward first – reflect on your own feelings, needs and boundaries rather than overly focusing on his intentions.
- Open up communication – have an honest discussion about your mutual expectations and limitations to find clarity.
- Manage expectations ¬- don’t assume the relationship will naturally deepen, especially if early signs point to doubt or lack of readiness to commit.
The tarot aimed to illuminate his perspective. But the cards alone cannot dictate what course is best. Use the insights gained as one input among many when mapping out your romantic future. Trust your intuition and align decisions with your self-knowledge – that’s the surest path to fulfilling relationships.